Blog & Resources - Couples Reconnect - Couples Counselling in Calgary

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To regift or not to regift?

Two women wearing reindeer antlers wrap Holiday presents.

How much should we spend on gifts?

Helpful Tips for Couples from Couples Therapists, Holidays and special times

How much should we spend on gifts?

On the right, in a couples counselling session, a man and a woman sit side by side on a couch. The man is reaching out with his left arm. On the left, a couples therapist is talking to them, with both palms of her hands facing up.

Whose side will the couples therapist take?

Couples Therapy Insights

Whose side will the couples therapist take?

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How long does couples therapy take?

Couples Therapy Insights

How long does couples therapy take?

Money matters in relationships

Couples Therapy Insights, Helpful Tips for Couples from Couples Therapists

Money matters in relationships

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Using playfulness and humour to strengthen your relationship

Couples Therapy Insights, Helpful Tips for Couples from Couples Therapists

Using playfulness and humour to strengthen your relationship

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Does couples therapy really work?

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT), Gottman Therapy

Does couples therapy really work?

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Treat yourself to a stronger relationship this Halloween

Helpful Tips for Couples from Couples Therapists, Holidays and special times

Treat yourself to a stronger relationship this Halloween

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5 Tips to spark your relationship using gratitude and EFT this Thanksgiving

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT), Helpful Tips for Couples from Couples Therapists

5 Tips to spark your relationship using gratitude and EFT this Thanksgiving

A couple sit side by side on a couples counselling couch. The woman is crying, while her partner looks at her from a distance.

The science of laughing and crying in relationships

Couples Therapy Insights

The science of laughing and crying in relationships

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Emotional bank accounts: building and maintaining relationship trust

Gottman Therapy

Emotional bank accounts: building and maintaining relationship trust

Healing from infidelity with Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT)

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT)

Healing from infidelity with Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT)

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Fun behind-the-scenes facts about couples therapy

Couples Therapy Insights

Fun behind-the-scenes facts about couples therapy

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Hot new trends in couples therapy

Couples Therapy Insights

Hot new trends in couples therapy

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How to practice empathic listening, in 5 easy steps, to transform your relationship

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT), Helpful Tips for Couples from Couples Therapists

How to practice empathic listening, in 5 easy steps, to transform your relationship

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Having the same fight over and over? 5 Reasons why this might be happening

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT), Helpful Tips for Couples from Couples Therapists

Having the same fight over and over? 5 Reasons why this might be happening

A couple sit in a waiting room, facing away from each other. The man is sitting on the left chair, looking down and facing left. There is an empty chair in the middle. On the right, a woman is sitting on a chair, looking down and to the right.

Trust is relationship glue: Using EFT to rebuild trust

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT)

Trust is relationship glue: Using EFT to rebuild trust

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How attachment styles show up in your relationship

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT), Helpful Tips for Couples from Couples Therapists

How attachment styles show up in your relationship

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Couples who care cultivate love with repair

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT), Helpful Tips for Couples from Couples Therapists

Couples who care cultivate love with repair

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7 Tips to understand your relationship’s negative cycles

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT), Helpful Tips for Couples from Couples Therapists

7 Tips to understand your relationship’s negative cycles

A woman holding two cookies decorated with icing that say "Love". Around her neck, she is wearing a sign that says "Love Translator".

Juggling fun in the sun and work this summer: tips for couples

Helpful Tips for Couples from Couples Therapists

Juggling fun in the sun and work this summer: tips for couples

Spot and break negative cycles in your relationship

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT), Helpful Tips for Couples from Couples Therapists

Spot and break negative cycles in your relationship

Two women sitting on a couples therapy couch and holding a small dog.

Dance your way into a closer relationship: the “tango” of love

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT)

Dance your way into a closer relationship: the “tango” of love

A man and a woman sitting on the left and right side of a couples therapy couch. The man is looking away, to the left, while holding his hand to his face. The woman is looking in his direction.

A relationship is about being there for each other

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT), Helpful Tips for Couples from Couples Therapists

A relationship is about being there for each other

A smiling couple sitting side by side hold hands in a couples therapy session at Couples Reconnect.

Love and Order – Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT) Unit

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT), Helpful Tips for Couples from Couples Therapists

Love and Order – Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT) Unit

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3 Reasons why couples love Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT)

3 Reasons why couples love Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy

Couples Reconnect on Instagram

Our couples counselling team in Calgary shares snippets of inspiration and ideas on Instagram that help you move from conflict to closeness and connection.

Couples Reconnect, a branch of Calgary Reconnect Counselling Group, acknowledges that we live, work, and love on Treaty 7 territory, the original home of the Blackfoot Confederacy, comprised of the Siksika, Piikani, and Kanai First Nations; the Stoney Nakoda, comprised of the Chiniki, Wesley, and Bearspaw First Nations; and the Tsuut’ina First Nation.  This territory is also home to the Métis Nation of Alberta, Region 3 within the historical Northwest Métis homeland. Located on this traditional territory, our mission is to spark reconnection and healing within couples, kids, parents, and families. We do this work with respect for these First Nations and in a spirit of humility, kindness, inclusion, and diversity.